mediator

okok, guess this need some mediating now. Both shawn and amanda have faults. really. if u two wan to shoot me bring it on. i will jus say wat i observe and feel. hope u guys are ok with it. Basically, Shawn. I noe you are frustrated tht ppl dun come. Thats not up to us to decide anymore. they wan to come they will do so. its always tht small grp so be it. We try not to add tension, cos the way u speak or comment maybe a bit raw and crude. all the !@#%^& may not bring abt the right effect u wan to bring out and it may add tension. thts your fault, presentation. ok?

And to amanda, i understand u have family reunion. we all do. but the way u say it also kinda not thought. i quote "amanda: i dun understand why always hold gatherings at thoes days tat got family reunion dinner one. count me out den. not i dun wan go." Hey see and reflect what u jus said. u dun understand why we have gatherings on those days when u have reunion dinners. we really dunno u have reuion dinner then. we all have plans i noe u wan to meet up with us but u cant, we understand. the meaning u wan to give is hey, why i have a dinner on gathering again, wasted i got family dinner, obligated to go. not tht i cant go for gathering, count me out then. but the meaning zx got was ( and i got when i first read it was) : why u all plan things like this arh, so cock up one. alawyas plan things when i have dinner. i dun care lo. you all plan till like this dun blame me for not going, i wan to go lo but really cannot lo. blame the planning. Again presentaion of speech is wrong.

Both of you need to take a step back and see wat u all have said. ur intention was not given out properly. Our grp is so small, lets not make such a stupid and unsignificant arguement cause us to break apart. NOT WOTH IT!! planning on zx's part he is tired le, we try to think abt it. he always plan ppl always dun turn out. also sian. maybe we shld take the job from him. lighten his load. so amanda generosity from ur part. and zx relax and chill dun do anything le. I will take over from here. ya..